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How do I stop having work crushes because I only keep getting disappointed almost every day as I keep seeing they don’t like me back and won’t ever ask me out?

09.06.2025 14:42

How do I stop having work crushes because I only keep getting disappointed almost every day as I keep seeing they don’t like me back and won’t ever ask me out?

I was stupid to just wanna have a boyfriend at the time, my only interaction I had was at work. It's been about a year since I've been out of a relationship, I ended up wanting a new love. This was the year between 2002 to 2003 when I had my situation of dating someone from work.

His friend saw me, said oh. Yeah. She's cute. To his best friend who was my crush. My crush at the time was shy, told my friend I like your friend too, is interested in knowing, going out with her.

His weakness drove me nuts, I couldn't stand it. The shit he was saying to me was so selfish, just rude to me.

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Looks aren't everything but it does matter because that's how we identify what are attraction is, how we identify a person regardless.

Sadly, after I approached it he dumped me, I cried an accepted the dump. But the way he dumpede made believe it's something I did wrong, I need to fix it. So..I became attached to him, finally I stopped. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship, next thing you know he ended up going out with some blonde hair girl who was spiteful at me, a stalker .

Someone will end up quitting bc you're working, seeing each other when you shouldn't be around each other because you're grieving, need to be away from each other.

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I'm like why the fuck is your new girl stalking me, is jealous of my face. I accept the rejection, I'm not clinging on. This girl wanted to fight with me for no reason, kept mimicking me. She kept mimicking my hair styles, hair cuts, trying to mimick my clothes.

With me, I have dated a guy before from work and it wasn't good. It was good that he saw me, validated my “crushing”, was happy of saying “yes” to asking him out, having my friend do the match making for me.

But yes … it's also not good for anyone to ask out someone without investigating, withholding your feelings in before asking the person out. They could be dwelling on a ex still, is on the rebound or it's mentally ill or has a evil heart.

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Now..till this day she's around again, we're both the ex but now she's fooling around with this ex, are friends with benefits which I don't care.

Anyways, I'm the jealous type. Like any girl would react or women about getting mad about some guy it's with, talking and listening about it's ex. I mean..I don't really care because I don't. But you shouldn't be going out with me if you're on the rebound dwelling over your ex.

But yea I had no idea what this co workers mind was like, what his heart was like. I saw him, said yea…I wanna go out with him, I do have a crush.

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Love,

But yea… as time went on I have ended up with a new love, he was just as bad. He was dwelling on his Asian ex, was a jerk to me.

Let's be blunt, get straight to the point because you're really fucking pissing me off. I asked him if you want your ex still, he said no. I said..that's a lie because you keep talking about her I'm the one who's stuck listening to it.

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Her face looks like something like the cabbage patch doll, is just straight up ugly. An her mind is just dumb, not bright in the head. Her heart is just pompous, stuck up like a nasty valley girl.

Anyways, I was so happy he found me sexually attractive but when we hanged out, got to know him. I realized that what I have done wasn't a good idea, that this guy isnt my type inward. I couldn't stand his temperament. I found out I'm the rebound girl because I'm sick of him dwelling on his ex girlfriend, that asking a guy out wasn't smart because the guy should ask the girl out.

I don't think it's a good idea anyways , to be dating someone you work with. The problem is what if you do end u going out, then you break up?!.

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I came to a conclusion that it's not good to go out with someone you work with, that it will cause a distraction, a dramatic atmosphere.

I don't care if she's screwing the ex from the past because it isn't spite at me. This chick is so fucking ugly with her face, she's ditsy underneath.

I knew he was trying to get rid of me, stupid me o chose to cling on because his best friend told me, wanted me to be some occupational therapist to him, all I want is my boyfriend to want me, be so into me.

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Anyways, he ended up dumping me at a park, I broke down crying. It lasted for about a week, that was it. The aggression, wanting me isn't mutual. I couldn't stand this guy's quiet ness, secretive behavior. He didn't ask me out, so what the hell do I expect?. Then his best friend had the nerve to tell me to be sympathetic about him grieving about his ex, how I should care for him?. I'm like why the fuck should I be in a relationship with your friend if he still has feelings for his ex?.

I had gotten over him, surely I found out this girl went out with him to spite me, gain attention on herself. She was some nasty attention seeker who was a bully towards me

When we went out he told me he liked blondes more, that having fake blonde hair is like starring at a blonde hair chick. All he did was vent, talk about hating his ex. I asked him if you still like your ex because you won't shut up about her to me?.

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My friend was so happy, pleased that it's mutual of wanting to go out with each other. My friend gave me the news, my crush took the confidence to approach me, we started to chat. He was very nervous, why around me an blushing.

At the time of trying to figure me out, I was actually stocking some stuff, had this cute express present dress with bleach blonde hair, some black mark jane shoes, my dress was so pretty. It was black with cream lace around it.

Angela

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I ended up telling my friend about him, she asked me if you want me to ask him out for you, talk to his best friend about setting you guys up?. I said yea, cool. She's like well let's see if he's even sexually drawn to you, if he wants to know youor even knows if you're alive?.

What about my feelings, hurting me?. Don't I matter?. Doesn't anyone care about me, how I feel about him wanting me?. I should've been the one to dump him but he did it instead.

Finally, she snapped and got pissed off that I don't care that she's with my ex boyfriend, actually ended up dumping him because of me.

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She felt it's going no where, i guess she still has feelings for her ex as well. She dumped my ex, then quit because she couldn't stand how I don't care.

Anyways, I'm the quiet, shy type . I just ended up minding my business, what happen was my crush, his best friend showed up, was spying on me, wanted to see who I was?.

My best solution for you is to no daye someone you work with, unless you're planning to quit and has another job lined up.

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